| Location | Alexandria |
| Age | 22 years |
| Cause of Death | Overdose |
| Date of Birth | 28/08/1985 |
| Date of Death | 14/09/2007 |
| Visitors | 3,119 since 18/01/2009 |
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I think of my son Ross every day, not always with tears, but sometimes with a smile, what great memories I have of him. People say that time is a great healer, but i find a mother who loses a child, not matter what age,there heart never heals, but they find different ways of coping with their loss.
He was a bright and intelligent young man, who for reasons I will never know, chose a path of self destruction and paid the ulimate price for this choice with his life.
Ross was 22 years old when he died, leaving behind his Dad Michael, older sisters Lynsey & LynneAnne and his younger brother Barrie, and an emormous amount of family and friends, who miss him desperately, but the most precious thing he left behind was his beautiful 4 year old daughter Caitlin, who we all absolutely adore, she reminds us so much of Ross, with her quit wit and wicked sense of humour, she's definitely her fathers daughter!
I believe one day that we will meet again in a better
place, until then Ross is never more that a thought away.
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ღ♥ღ Till Healing Comes ღ♥ღ
My heart is closing deep inside
from all the pain I feel;
while others are so full of joy
my hurt feels very real.
I want to find a bit of light
but part of me feels dead,
and though I see the joy around
my soul is sad instead.
It's hard to enter deeply in
when you're no longer here.
It's like the lights have all gone out
and won't be lighting up this year.
And so this year I must be
just how it is I am.
So that soon my heart can heal
I'll do the best I can.
The only thing that I can do
is to stay present in the now,
to feel my grieving pain
and trust I'll heal somehow.
As this year gently comes
and as my heart is torn in two.
I'll open just a little bit
as I'm deeply missing you.
I'll trust the gift of life that's here
and trust that I'm ok,
and be with how it is right now...
..till healing comes my way.
ღ♥ღ (by Bev Swanson) ღ♥ღ
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~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* 22nd May 2010 ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
NO FOOTPRINTS.
I've listened to the "footprints" poem
a million times or more.
Of how when only one set shows
upon the sandy shore.
It is the Lord carrying us
and taking on our load.
And His are the only set
of footprints that showed.
oooO
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But what if when we look
there are no footprints to be found?
All we see is plain and simple
sand upon the ground.
No imprints showing that our Lord
is carrying us through life.
Helping us when we feel
we cannot handle all this strife.
oooO
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Where is my Lord now that I've fallen
and can't seem to get back up?
So tired and lonely trying to deal
with what seems an overflowing cup.
Where are those footprints in the sand
to tell me He's right there?
Helping me with problems and
showing that He really does care.
oooO
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Does He have favourites, OH NO,
please tell me that's not so!
By why does life seem easier
for some people that I know?
And sometimes I just scream out loud
although it seems in vain,
But often it gets harder each day
to deal with all this pain.
oooO
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And then it dawned on me as I realize
how simple could it be.
I wonder why I was so blind
that I truly did not see.
It must have been a lightning bolt
that one day gave me light,
Cause out of the clear blue sky,
I finally regained my sight.
oooO
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I saw a fluffy white cloud
shaped like an Angel dear.
That helped me to understand
and see things oh so clear,
That when I saw no footprints
and so often wondered why,
My Lord carried me on Angel wings,
when He decided to fly.
~Author Unknown~
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~ Love Jude. x x ~
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.......ჱܓჱܓჱჱჱܓჱܓჱჱ
.....ჱܓჱܓჱჱ....ჱܓჱܓჱჱ
....ჱܓჱܓჱჱ......ჱܓჱܓჱჱ
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..ჱܓჱܓჱჱ..............ჱܓჱܓჱჱ
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ღ♥ღ LOVE YOU MORE ღ♥ღ
ღ♥ღ Do I Love You
To The Moon And Back?
No,I Love You
More Than That. ღ♥ღ
ღ♥ღ I Love You To The Desert Sands,
The Mountains,Stars
The Planets,And ღ♥ღ
ღ♥ღ I Love You To The Deepest Sea
And Deeper Still
Through History. ღ♥ღ
ღ♥ღ Before Beyond I Love You Then,
I Love You Now
I'll Love You When ღ♥ღ
ღ♥ღ The Sun's Gone Out,
The Moon's Gone Home,
And All The Stars Are Fully Grown. ღ♥ღ
ღ♥ღ When I No Longer Say These Words,
I'll Give Them To The Wind And The Birds
...So That They'll Still Be Heard. ღ♥ღ
ღ♥ღ LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU ALWAYS ღ♥ღ...
DO YOU FEEL THE NEED TO TALK XXX
Do you ever sit in an empty room
do you appreciate an open bloom
do you smell it's sweet perfume
Do you feel the need to 'talk out loud'
but theres no one there to hear
do you hear a voice call out your name
so close up to your ear
Have you ever felt a sudden chill pas by
and the hair on your neck stands up
have you gone to pour a cup of tea
but someone's moved your cup
Do you believe in angels
do they make you smile
have you felt one on each shoulder
as you walk that long wiery mile
Do you know that all these things
are messages to you
do you believe that they exist
i'll tell you.....YES THEY DO
with love theresa xxx
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A lovely light is never dimmed
but shines on,bright and clear,
within the hearts of those who
care and keep each memory dear;
In a sky full of stars there are
always some that shine a
little brighter,and you my love
are one of those star.
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With all my love to you,
and your lovely family,
with love christine xx
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Remembering
Go ahead and mention my loved one,
The one that died, you know.
Don't worry about hurting me further.
The depth of my pain doesn't show.
Don't worry about making me cry
I'm already crying inside.
Help me to heal by releasing
The tears that I try to hide.
I'm hurt when you just keep silent,
Pretending they didn't exist,
I'd rather you mention my loved one
Knowing that they have been missed.
You asked me how I was doing
I say "pretty good" or "fine"
But healing is something ongoing
I feel it will take a lifetime.
~Elizabeth Dent
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Footprints In The Sand x
One night a man had a dream. He dreamed
he was walking along the beach with the LORD.
Across the sky flashed scenes from his life.
For each scene he noticed two sets of
footprints in the sand: one belonging
to him, and the other to the LORD.
When the last scene of his life flashed before him,
he looked back at the footprints in the sand.
He noticed that many times along the path of
his life there was only one set of footprints.
He also noticed that it happened at the very
lowest and saddest times in his life.
This really bothered him and he
questioned the LORD about it:
"LORD, you said that once I decided to follow
you, you'd walk with me all the way.
But I have noticed that during the most
troublesome times in my life,
there is only one set of footprints.
I don't understand why when
I needed you most you would leave me."
The LORD replied:
"My child, my precious child,
I love you and I would never leave you.
During your times of trial and suffering,
when you see only one set of footprints,
it was then that I carried you."
with lots of love god bless love theresa xxx
♥......GOODNIGHT ANGEL.......♥
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Over the rainbow, beyond the stars
In that beautiful garden above
Surrounded by loved ones, who went on before
Now at peace in God's perfect love
I know you'll be waiting, till my work is done
For there's more here on earth I must do
There's comfort in knowing when God calls my name
I'll cross over the rainbow .. to you
Unknown.
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